Very well said
- Oct 3, 2019
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Whether I have contacted you, or you have contacted me, I think you should know from the start my feelings about certain things. Can you find love here, maybe, but not from the start. My initial contacts with someone are usually Filipinas, primarily because most know enough English so that we can communicate with each other. Unfortunately, many here are contract employees. Women took these jobs so that they can help to support their families back home who live in a poor economy. If the situation was reversed, I would be doing the same thing. I respect that.
Attractive women receive many, many responses from men telling of love or seeking the love of their lives. Usually, these are mostly from gamers that are seeking some sexual fantasy, and they could care less about the women they contact. All I can say about that is that I am not one of them, and I am not here to hurt anyone.
Do I expect to find the love of my life? Not from the start. What I do hope for is to find a woman that will like me enough so that if she joins me, the possibility the possibility of love will grow, and I will treat her with the respect and dignity she deserves, and take care of her. I am sure we can grow to truly love each other.
If I am the one who initially contacted you, it’s because I was attracted to your photo, and I liked what you had written. But that’s just the starting point. Through our correspondence I look for intellectual, spiritual, and emotional compatibility; and that she easily smiles. If everything is present, at some point I will travel to meet with you face to face. This presents a big problem with those that are under contract. Realistically, contract workers have no time to meet. Their duties require them to do household chores 7 days a week, with only a few hours to themselves on Sunday. I don’t know how to get around this, but this meeting is essential, so that all the pieces of the puzzle are complete and maybe can begin the process to bring you us together.
The one thing that you should know is that sex is the last thing that I’m looking for in our correspondence. I won’t ask for nude photos or anything like that. I’m not here for that. I’m here to find a partner; one that is able to give commitment and loyalty.
So what is it I am looking for? I just want an honest woman who is not into games. If you are real, I want to hear from you. If we can get to know each other and meet face to face at sometime in the future, I want to hear from you. If you can be sincere in your needs, I want to hear from you. In return, if we connect, I will pledge my loyalty to that one special woman. I am too old for games and want nothing to do with false fronts. I only want to find one woman, not ten. Surely, with all the women on this site there must be one that is special; maybe not. Maybe the internet is not the place to meet someone. I am going to give this one more try, and maybe I can find an honest and faithful woman for a life partner. Only time will tell. One important thing that I should mention is that I am at a point in my life that I do not desire to have children. I hope you respect my decision in this matter. For those that are considering children, I would not ask you to give up that dream, and I sincerely wish you success in your search.
For me, I am looking for a long term relationship and not something for a night, or week, but someone for a lifetime.